Okay, coming to a woman by praising her to high heavens is like going to her with a poster stuck on your forehead declaring that you're a loser. Yup, in the pickup expert's language, such causes you to be an AFC - and Average Frustrated Chump, a name used for people who can't acquire any because they don't have the right paraphernalias and the right talents for the pursuit.
When approaching and in time talking to a woman, you have to feign lack of interest.
The reason?
It's because you, the PUA - or pickup artist for the uninitiated - should forever have the advantage. If you illustrate to the woman that you're interested - or worse, possessed - with her, then you will be offering her the upper hand on a silver platter. If she knows you're attracted with her, either or all of the following instances will take place:
* She will begin to act difficult to pleasing, knowing that whatever her wants would be, you're definite to give your best to fulfill them. * She'll lose fascination on you, as with every sport, the excitement is frequent in the hunt and she already has you in the bag. * She'll see the L-O-S-E-R on your head from afar and she won't offer you the time of day.
But, if you are able to feign disinterest, you will have the lead, and continue to benefit the advantage until the end of your chase. Consider the following matters if you complete such:
* She will be dared. If she's gorgeous enough to catch your attention, then probabilities are she's so accustomed to getting everyone's attention quite effortlessly. You'll be different, and she'll be surprised, and she won't stop until you surrender to her charms as well. * She will consider you mysterious, what with the seeming resistance you possess against her captivating appearance. * She will struggle to capture you. The victim will also become the predator, and this will make matters much, much simpler for you.
The way a PUA puts on lack of interest is by means of his declarations recognized as negs. A neg is an apparently unintentional offense that is intended to surprise her for the reason that she's not accustomed to getting such remarks. "Your nails seem fabulous, are they authentic?" is a staple statement in many PUAs' routines.
In composing a neg, you have to have an additional compliment. A neg stated mainly as an insult will look, well, insulting. But a neg that is an offense attached to a praise will have her puzzled, and this is how you'd wish her to be.
When approaching and in time talking to a woman, you have to feign lack of interest.
The reason?
It's because you, the PUA - or pickup artist for the uninitiated - should forever have the advantage. If you illustrate to the woman that you're interested - or worse, possessed - with her, then you will be offering her the upper hand on a silver platter. If she knows you're attracted with her, either or all of the following instances will take place:
* She will begin to act difficult to pleasing, knowing that whatever her wants would be, you're definite to give your best to fulfill them. * She'll lose fascination on you, as with every sport, the excitement is frequent in the hunt and she already has you in the bag. * She'll see the L-O-S-E-R on your head from afar and she won't offer you the time of day.
But, if you are able to feign disinterest, you will have the lead, and continue to benefit the advantage until the end of your chase. Consider the following matters if you complete such:
* She will be dared. If she's gorgeous enough to catch your attention, then probabilities are she's so accustomed to getting everyone's attention quite effortlessly. You'll be different, and she'll be surprised, and she won't stop until you surrender to her charms as well. * She will consider you mysterious, what with the seeming resistance you possess against her captivating appearance. * She will struggle to capture you. The victim will also become the predator, and this will make matters much, much simpler for you.
The way a PUA puts on lack of interest is by means of his declarations recognized as negs. A neg is an apparently unintentional offense that is intended to surprise her for the reason that she's not accustomed to getting such remarks. "Your nails seem fabulous, are they authentic?" is a staple statement in many PUAs' routines.
In composing a neg, you have to have an additional compliment. A neg stated mainly as an insult will look, well, insulting. But a neg that is an offense attached to a praise will have her puzzled, and this is how you'd wish her to be.
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