Are you worried that your spouse might be cheating on you? If so, you're certainly not alone. Infidelity rates are now at an all-time high. We wanted to show you a quick and easy way to find out if your spouse is being unfaithful.
There are more and more people that are hiring private investigators to "spy" on their spouse. However, you don't need to go to such an extreme! Whenever we get an email from someone who is considering using a private investigator to see if anything "fishy" is going on, we always recommend using the following method first.
It's fast, easy and costs you next to nothing. There are three steps in total - let's go over each one.
Step #1 - How To Catch A Cheating Spouse
Ready to play detective?!? In this first step you are going to need to get a hold of your spouse's cell phone for around 15 minutes. Make sure you have enough time to look at it without worrying about getting "caught".
There are many different times you can choose to do this - perhaps your spouse just stepped out to the store or mall without their phone of they have just jumped in the shower. Just make sure you have in around 15 minutes of alone time with their cell phone.
Once you get a hold of their cell phone grab a pen and paper and get comfortable. You are going to look over their entire call history. Most cell phones keep track of the last 100 calls - look at both the incoming and outgoing call history lists and write down every phone number that you see.
When you are making your list, you can leave off any phone number that you know you recognize. You just want to make sure that you are writing down each and every phone number that doesn't look familiar to you.
When you are done, put the phone back and move on to the next step.
Step #2 - Are You Married To A Cheater?
Now that you have a list of every phone number that your spouse has called it's time to find out exactly who they have been talking. With just a phone number, you can find out someone's full name, address, family details and background information.
How is this done? There are companies that pu together databases that contain information on the owner information for every phone number (this includes cell phone and unlisted numbers). These companies then let people search through the database to find out information on any phone number they want to "investigate".
This type of search is call a "reverse phone lookup" and is done online right from your computer. You just enter the phone number and the person's full details (name, address etc) is shown on your computer screen.
We included a link at the bottom of this article so that you can try a free sample search to see how it works. Have a try and bookmark the page if you don't have your list with you.
There is a fee for using this type of service, but it isn't expensive. Make sure you look for a company that offers unlimited searches for a one-time only fee. Your list will most likely have more than one or two phone numbers so you don't want to have to pay for each individual search you use.
Go through your list and run a search for each phone number. As you do this, write down the information you find out about each one next to the number on your list.
Once you are done this step, you can move on to the last step.
Step #3 - How To Find Out If Your Spouse Is Cheating
In this final step it's time to look over our results and see what we come up with. You know have a list of exactly who your spouse has been talking to and how often. Anything suspicious is going to jump right out at you.
Look over your sheet of paper and all the names that are on it. Many people that think their spouse is cheating on them have a person in mind that they think they might be cheating with. If this is the case, do you see this name on your list?
It's easy to figure out if your spouse is cheating on you once you know who they have been talking to. This easy "detective's work" will get you the answers you need about your relationship and whether your spouse is being truly faithful to you.
There are more and more people that are hiring private investigators to "spy" on their spouse. However, you don't need to go to such an extreme! Whenever we get an email from someone who is considering using a private investigator to see if anything "fishy" is going on, we always recommend using the following method first.
It's fast, easy and costs you next to nothing. There are three steps in total - let's go over each one.
Step #1 - How To Catch A Cheating Spouse
Ready to play detective?!? In this first step you are going to need to get a hold of your spouse's cell phone for around 15 minutes. Make sure you have enough time to look at it without worrying about getting "caught".
There are many different times you can choose to do this - perhaps your spouse just stepped out to the store or mall without their phone of they have just jumped in the shower. Just make sure you have in around 15 minutes of alone time with their cell phone.
Once you get a hold of their cell phone grab a pen and paper and get comfortable. You are going to look over their entire call history. Most cell phones keep track of the last 100 calls - look at both the incoming and outgoing call history lists and write down every phone number that you see.
When you are making your list, you can leave off any phone number that you know you recognize. You just want to make sure that you are writing down each and every phone number that doesn't look familiar to you.
When you are done, put the phone back and move on to the next step.
Step #2 - Are You Married To A Cheater?
Now that you have a list of every phone number that your spouse has called it's time to find out exactly who they have been talking. With just a phone number, you can find out someone's full name, address, family details and background information.
How is this done? There are companies that pu together databases that contain information on the owner information for every phone number (this includes cell phone and unlisted numbers). These companies then let people search through the database to find out information on any phone number they want to "investigate".
This type of search is call a "reverse phone lookup" and is done online right from your computer. You just enter the phone number and the person's full details (name, address etc) is shown on your computer screen.
We included a link at the bottom of this article so that you can try a free sample search to see how it works. Have a try and bookmark the page if you don't have your list with you.
There is a fee for using this type of service, but it isn't expensive. Make sure you look for a company that offers unlimited searches for a one-time only fee. Your list will most likely have more than one or two phone numbers so you don't want to have to pay for each individual search you use.
Go through your list and run a search for each phone number. As you do this, write down the information you find out about each one next to the number on your list.
Once you are done this step, you can move on to the last step.
Step #3 - How To Find Out If Your Spouse Is Cheating
In this final step it's time to look over our results and see what we come up with. You know have a list of exactly who your spouse has been talking to and how often. Anything suspicious is going to jump right out at you.
Look over your sheet of paper and all the names that are on it. Many people that think their spouse is cheating on them have a person in mind that they think they might be cheating with. If this is the case, do you see this name on your list?
It's easy to figure out if your spouse is cheating on you once you know who they have been talking to. This easy "detective's work" will get you the answers you need about your relationship and whether your spouse is being truly faithful to you.
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